For miscarriage without medical intervention/ surgery/ medication:
You may be able to complete your miscarriage at home. Often times the first sign of a miscarriage is spotting or cramping. Other times you may not have physical signs and only learn of the miscarriage via ultrasound.
Consult with your doctor if you should wait for your body to progress on it's own or if you need additional medical intervention. Often times your body will go into labor and deliver the baby.
Things to consider:
· Time: Some miscarriages are over with quickly, others can take up to 3-4 weeks. Ectopic pregnancies and other procedures might need to heal for a couple months.
· Medical Risks: If too much time passes, infection can occur
· Emotional Toll / Being alone: Seek out loved ones, church community, therapist, or other support
What can I do with my baby’s body if I deliver him or her at home?
Many times, in early pregnancy, your body may dispel the baby without you being aware of it. This is natural, and you should not be concerned about trying to save an unidentifiable body. God knows your love for your baby and does not blame you for things out of your control.
In cases where you can identify a body, try to keep the baby in a saline solution or water as much as possible until the burial. If the body starts to shrivel from loss of moisture, it should rehydrate after some time in a saline solution. You will need to keep the container in the refrigerator, although this is not recommended for more than several days. If you anticipate the burial will be delayed, the baby’s body may also be kept in the freezer. In this case, do not keep the baby in fluid.
https://www.catholicmiscarriagesupport.com/practical/practical-qa/caring-for-your-babys-body/
If you deliver your baby at a hospital, it is important to know your parental rights and have a plan in place for your baby's body.
"If you have a moment ahead of time, it can be very helpful to have a birth plan written up explaining that you want your baby’s remains, with copies for your doctor and the hospital staff. If you give birth at a hospital, make sure you tell the staff (ahead of time if possible) that you want to take the baby home... Older gestation babies (the age will vary, but starting at around 18-20 weeks) are usually kept in the hospital morgue and are easy to request for burial.
Even if you requested genetic testing, you should still be able to come back to the hospital to retrieve the baby. If you have a D&C, do tell them ahead of time that you will be wanting to take the baby home. It is required that any tissue the doctor removes during a D&C be sent to pathology so that everything can be identified. You will still be able to go to the hospital lab in a day or so (varies with hospital) to pick up your baby. He or she will most likely be in a specimen cup. It is NOT recommended to try to open the cup and go through it. You can still bury the cup in a casket and/or wrapped in some fabric. If you have surgery to remove an ectopic pregnancy, you can also request the body. As with the D&C, everything will be sent to pathology, but you should still be able to come and pick up the baby.
https://www.catholicmiscarriagesupport.com/practical/practical-qa/caring-for-your-babys-body/
The Roman James Foundation (http://romanjames.org) will reimburse parents who have had an infant die in the NICU up to $1500 for funeral and memorial expenses.
Ask your local funeral home about special services and discounts for your baby. It is common for funeral homes to have a nominal fee or no fee to facilitate burial or cremation of a baby or fetus. Service charges for any type of ceremony for your baby are typically heavily discounted, as well as any merchandise you may select. They may have their own packages or programs available. Below are just a few places that have such offers. Please check with each establishment that their policies have not changed. We cannot guarantee any offers or prices for any funeral home or cemetery.
Everything is free/included (services, casket, etc.) for those in Sterling Heights, Shelby, or surrounding areas
Sterling Heights location
(near 16 Mile and Schoenherr)
36900 Schoenherr Rd.
Sterling Heights, MI, 48312
586-826-8550
Shelby Township location
(near 25 Mile and Van Dyke)
54880 Van Dyke Ave.
Shelby Township, MI, 48316
586-677-4000
$200 cost for arranging and facilitating a burial or cremation (includes necessary services and basic casket or cremation container). Additional services (merchandise or using facilities for funeral/ visitation) are discounted 50%.
Troy location
(near 16 & Crooks)
2600 Crooks Rd.
Troy, MI 48084
(248) 362-2500
Troy location
(near 17 & Rochester)
3725 Rochester Rd.
Troy, MI 48083
(248) 689-0700
Royal Oak location (near 14 & Woodward)
32515 Woodward
Royal Oak, MI48073
(248) 549-0500
The only charge is for the casket or merchandise (if a visitation is desired). The average casket cost for infants is $150, depending on the size. Any child under two years old is free for everything else (services, embalming, cremation, etc.). You must pay for the death certificate if the child is born alive. If you choose, the funeral home can call a doctor over to perform an autopsy, but there will be a charge.
Sterling Heights location
(near 18 Mile and Ryan)
3801 18 Mile Road
Sterling Heights, MI 48314
Warren location
(near 9 Mile and Ryan)
22642 Ryan Road
Warren, MI 48091
(586) 757-3563
The only charge is $200 for a “combination unit”, which is the casket and vault (which holds the casket when it goes in the ground). Everything else is free (going to the hospital, services at the funeral home, etc.). For a cremation, there is no charge for anything, but the urn is not included – you can bring your own or purchase one from them.
Shelby Twp location
(near 22 & Schoenherr)
49150 Schoenherr Rd.
Shelby Township, MI 48315
(586) 532-8600
Warren location
(near 13 & Hoover)
11470 E 13 Mile Rd.
Warren, MI 48093
(586) 751-3131
No charge for anything with infant burial.
Casket is free up to a certain size (if your child is over that size, they will charge wholesale price for the casket). They work in cooperation with Resurrection Cemetery.
Fraser (only location)
(near Utica Rd. and 14 Mile)
32814 Utica Rd.
Fraser, MI 48026
(586) 293-3390
Most local cemeteries offer heavily discounted or free burial space for infants, so it is best to ask if you have a specific cemetery that you prefer for your family. Here are a few local cemeteries that offer free burial in their infant section. (This means that your baby will not be buried in your family plot, unless you choose to pay for that.)
Burial in their infant section is available for miscarriages, stillborn babies, and infants. Older children may also be buried in the infant section at some locations (such as Guardian Angels). The family is only responsible for purchasing the stone. Everything else (grave, service, etc) is free of charge.
Please note that the Mt. Elliott location in Detroit does not have available space in their infant section…you will directed to go to one of these other locations….
Resurrection Cemetery
(near Clinton River Rd & Romeo Plank)
18201 Clinton River Rd
Clinton Twp, MI 48038
(586) 286-9020
Mt. Olivet Cemetery
(near E McNichols & Van Dyke)
17100 Van Dyke
Detroit, MI 48234
(313) 365-5650
Guardian Angel Cemetery
(near Rochester & Snell, N of Tienken)
4701 N. Rochester Rd
Rochester, MI 48306
(248) 601-2900
*older children are accommodated in an area of the infant section
All Saints Cemetery
(near Andersonville Rd & Nelsey Rd)
4401 Nelsey Road
Waterford, MI 48329
(248) 623-9633
*infant only ….no older children in the infant section
“Precious Lives” program: no cost burial option for babies/children through age 12, including babies lost in miscarriage. As long as the child’s casket is smaller than an adult size, they can be buried in the infant section. Older children with adult sized caskets will be found an available plot on the grounds.
Burial location and fee are free. Family is responsible for any memorialization cost (marker/stone or upright memorial, starting at about $500).
These locations are recommended, due to the available space in the infant section.
These locations also offer an infant loss walk in October, open to anyone, not just those buried at an CFCS cemeteries.
Holy Sepulchre
(near 10 Mile & Beech Rd.)
25800 W 10 Mile Rd
Southfield, MI 48033
248-350-1900
Our Lady of Hope
(near Allen Rd.
& Sibley Rd.)
18303 Allen Road
Brownstown, MI 48193
734-285-2155
St. Joseph
(near N.Monroe St. & Stewart/Elm)
909 N. Monroe St.
Monroe, MI 48161
These locations may not have room in their infant section, but they will work with you to find availability somewhere on the grounds.
Mount Hope
727 Orchard Lake Rd Pontiac, MI 48341
(248) 332-1079
Mount Carmel
900 Ford Avenue Wyandotte, MI 48192
Holy Cross
8850 Dix Ave Detroit, MI 48209
We are not medical professionals.
Please reach out to your doctor or therapist if you feel that you need physical or mental help.
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